My mum got married when I was 21 years old. I was almost done with my higher education. The man she got married to was a good man as he came in and supported my education and treated me like his daughter. My life on campus changed for the better where I even moved from hostel to rentals. I was done with my studies and secured a job as a lecturer in one of my dad’s friend’s colleges. It was near home so I always went home after my job. Unfortunately, my mum died but the man still treated me as his own child. Five years after my mum’s death I teased him and told him to marry again as he is not old and he does not deserve to be lonely. I even connected him to one of my friends who had loosed his husband too and they were of the same age. All was good until they met while I was present. I became jealous and after we went home I couldn’t hide and he noted. In the house, I changed my dressing code, and one day what I wanted to happen happened and since then I have been dating my stepdad. All I feel is I want him to marry me. How should I approach my friends and break this news?
When I was starting to read this I thought at the end of the statement you will say how sorry you are and you will be asking what you can do but to my surprise, I find that it is otherwise. One thing I can just tell you the truth is that you are cursed and you have made your kids be cursed because of your action. Advising your dad to marry again was a piece of good advice but ending up having an affair with him is the worst mistake. You should not ask how to break the news to your friends but you should be asking how you can be able to do away with your feelings for him. What you should do because of the curse that you have already acquired for sleeping with your dad is to drop the relationship and date someone else. Let him be your dad and not your husband. Let him bless you and your kids with the parent’s blessings. Act fast before you start saying I am already carrying his baby!
May God help you.