I am writing with the hope that the answer I will get will help me move on with life without always thinking of what happened. I’m married for 3 years now and am blessed with one kid. My husband is an accountant and he is a good man as he treats me well as his wife and also he is a good dad. As we all know no one is perfect but his faults are that he does not have time for me. He leaves early and comes home late. I tried to talk about this matter but he just changes and when he does he just does it for a day or two.
Due to this, I started dating secretly and it’s so unfortunate that one day he came early than he usually does and found me with my new boyfriend in the act. He didn’t cause drama as he just walked out and came later, the time that he always comes back home on the other days. He talked to me as if there was nothing that happened. He ate and went to sleep not forgetting that he made love to me just the same way he does.
It is two weeks now and he has never talked about it. He has not changed what he used to do. He always treats me the same way he used to and always pays bills like he used to do. Does this mean that he has another woman out there or will he end up killing me one day? What should I do? Please help.
You forgot what this man does to make sure that you are beautiful to an extent that another man can be with you when you are married. You compared that with time. What if he has time for you and he is unable to provide for the family? For real you are a disgrace to that man.
You have done wrong and all you want to do is console yourself that the man has another woman or he will harm you. Why didn’t he harm you when he found you in his bed cheating on him? Shame on you.
The way he is behaving is proof that he loves you and believes in you. He just wants you to realize your mistakes. Do your duties and when you are just two of you apologize to him. Talk about what happened and explain why you did what you did and promise him it will never happen again. Make sure that it doesn’t happen again and now make sure you make him come home early to have your time
All the best.