The question that rise is one: if the relationship is hard to start, keep and maintain what of marriage where every day he/she does what you hate as you see every day, repeated the mistakes that he/she had said she will not repeat again, finding that whoever you thought he/she was, is totally opposite of that, but you got to stay because you are already in it, but what many ladies talk about is that their men have no virtual and at the same time they are disloyal and dishonest always and just but quoting some words in an email that was written to me by a lady who wanted some advice: “My Husband of 7 years Fuck anything that moves” and that’s when you ask yourself why this.
Many marriages have not worked it’s not because they were not meant to work, it’s all because of ignorance and influence you do what others are doing forgetting that you are all alone and life is yours alone. as we grow we say how our parents lived and how they handled their issues, nobody can talk about being brought up in a perfect family, we saw as they fought, as they argued we saw as our dads cheat, we heard them arguing about a kid in the neighborhood who she suspected that your Dad sired, some Dads left and came back after some time, so you know the struggle and the pain.
But now you are married and you have married. now what you want it’s a perfect married where a man will never cheat on you, always home early, where a man will never visit his friends and if he slaps you because of the mistakes you park and leave while you saw your mother being beaten for no valid reason, but am not advocating for violence, but still had a reason to hold on if you show your man that you got some better option somewhere he will look for option too, sometime you may use that to tame him but at the end of the day things will be worse as your action will wake the sleeping Devil in Him wake up, it’s so simple behave like and copy your mother and you will grow old alongside you family as this a booster to a happy marriage.