Before someone does what he/she is doing he/she will know if it’s good or bad, in marriage, there are some do and don’t, when you have married or when you have been married. Nowadays it has become a competition because he/she did this and that to me I will also do this or that to him/her without knowing that if you welcome revenge in the union the results will be a downfall. women believe to be the smartest and believe that they can’t be easily influenced or can’t be in a position to fall for little things but believe that men can and that’s why you will find them getting mad over a man for doing what she always does, two main things that women do and don’t want their men doing.
One is spending a lot of time with a cell phone, a woman can spend the whole day on her phone in social media and chatting with friends to even forgetting some of her shores, to those working at the end of the day they find themselves having not submitted some files on time, we men tend to believe that what they do with their phone is just having fun until you try the same, when you are not busy or when you are on your off days and she is around trying to have the same fun with your phone and she will be mad at you and start using some offensive words, that’s when you ask what are you fearing I will be doing on social media or with my phone or is it that she is fearing I am doing what she is always doing there.
The second and the one that can make your house turn from a place that is the source of your happiness to an interrogation room or an OB desk is when you end up having female friends, for her to have male friends is okay and they can text and call anytime but for you, it’s not and it’s not permitted as they believe that one of the friend or even that workmate who keeps on calling mighty be a co-wife.
Women believe in themselves so much but believe that their level of controlling themselves is higher than that of men, some do it because they fear that their might be doing what they do, while others try to protect their man by being overprotective.