Reality doesn’t matter when it comes to marriage, it doesn’t matter who you are, your position at work the people who you interact with that all don’t count when it comes to the family as there is another life outside work and friends, as time goes things do change his/her physical appearance may change what attracted you to him/her may fade the promises that you made to each other don’t matter as you can’t stop time you can try to maintain what you know that makes him/her happy but still it can’t be the way it was in the beginning and this is the reason behind some people say that he/she is no longer the one I married.
If you love him/her one thing that you should notice is his/her changes in his/her body and sometimes in his/her job. you have to know that with time he/she will start aging the skin and the body shape will not be the same again this also happens when a woman gives birth her body size and weight change and you don’t have another wise but to work with the changes but some men fail to understand this or take time to understand while some take advantage as they now have a reason to cheat. this also happens with the job, promotion comes with big pay and this mean more work this affect both parties as for a man he thinks that his wife is having an affair and he is trying to avoid him for women they talk about their men no longer having time for them and kids.
Change should not make you forget your vows neither should it give you a reason to cheat instead you should notice his/her changes and learn how to appreciate him/her, try and look for something new in him/her and you will always have a reason to get home early.