A man will break up today and date tomorrow and see no big deal

Men start relationships not because they want them to stay but as a game, we can just call hit and run thing and in the hit and run thing situation force you together, maybe because she was playing hard to get and you had to use all means to win her in the process other in the list noted and left and you had to stick to her or in the process you impregnate her and all that’s left is you being together, and that’s why it is true that men marry because of situations, not love, but on the other hand, women start a relationship because of the dream and passion towards it and that’s why when things don’t work for them the lady is hurt more than a man.

A man will break up today and date tomorrow and see no big deal, but inside him, he will always have that guilty conscience that will always be questioning him. A lady will park and leave not because she no longer cares about his man but because she wants him to be better, as they think when he is alone and feels that he had lost he will change and be a man she met but at the end of the day only 10% change 90% become worse and that’s why I clearly said in my last article don’t park and leave stay and fight for what you believe in.

Women will wait for a man to change and come apologizing as he is already a changed as per woman’s mind, but when it doesn’t work and the marriage is beyond repair the woman tries to move on, as there is always that man who pretend to care but with an ill motive but all in all there are some who approach you with big dreams but the fact will always remain that the first relationship that a woman starts after divorce or separation doesn’t work as she lives with the dream that his man will come back for her and kids as she always believes in him, and this what has made many divorcees not to move on not because they have never tried but because it didn’t work they blame the men they met but men are not the problem but women are.