Men don’t leave their mother’s side from day one, and at the same time, they tend to take time to adopt a new lifestyle: from that man whose mother used to do everything for him, to that man who is supposed to take care of a woman after he marries, for men they don’t expect thing to change they expect things to always be the same and that’s why as a matter of fact man life start and ends in the transfer where his mum transfer him to this lady who he has married for her to continue taking care of him. And this is where things go wrong the man wants to be taken care of, while his wife too expects her man to take care of her.
If you are observant enough you will tell that the couples where a lady is always next to her husband, attending to him, talking to him tend to be so happy. For a woman who is always attending to the kids and always have time for her friends and not her husband, this is a woman who that at the end of the day you will find saying that her man has another woman out there. When you look and compare the two women you will find that his wife is more beautiful than the one he got in his secret world. Not because a man can’t choose anymore but it’s all because he got beauty in the house and all he needs out there is not beauty but someone to complete the other woman (wife) he already has.
With this, a man will prefer to be with and spend a lot of time with the other woman than with his wife as he feels someone is listening to him and got his back. But the fact still remains if shit happens there will never come a time that this man will choose you over his wife as no man can leave his family for you to enjoy life or what I can call financial support and stick to your lane. Because if u start opening your mouth wide you are the one who will lose, he will go back to his family and after some time hit somewhere else.